I have several people in my life who are young and are just starting to be interested in girls, an anxiety that most men never get over. Forget about the modern attempt to rewrite human behavior; biology is biology. Women, in the form of young girls, are meant to establish upon the human race a survival of the fittest kind of competition that is intended to inspire greatness. I’ve told the story more than once about how I met my own wife; it was under very challenging circumstances, and I’m the type of person who doesn’t yield to anything. Nothing is off limits to me. So, I saw her in a car on a date with another guy, and I knocked on the window, essentially asking her to marry me. And we’ve been married now for nearly 38 years. I would advise all young people concerned about attracting young girls to be confident and direct. Because here’s the secret. Women don’t like slugs. If you are outgoing, most women will want to leverage whatever attractiveness they have to reel you in, as they desire those qualities in their own family building and for their future children. They may not be consciously aware of all that, but their essential biological necessity establishes it in their behavior quite clearly. I think one of the wisest movies in the history of cinema came from the movie Scarface, starring Al Pacino, during the pool scene. Tony Montana’s friend wanted to pick up a pretty girl at the pool and was being very obvious about his sexual intentions. Tony tried to warn him not to be improper with her, but he did it anyway. He talked to her for a minute, then stuck his tongue out in a sexually suggestive manner, as if all the young woman wanted was sexual pleasure, and she slapped him.
After that scene, Tony tried to help his wounded friend by telling him that in America, you have to make money first. Then the women will love you. But not until then. Make some money, show that you are successful, and getting women will be no problem. That is generally true in most cases. No matter how much radical liberals try to rewrite human behavior, that basic biological necessity holds. If you are confident, women in the form of young girls will see a basic ingredient for success, and they will find a way to make room for you under any condition. Because the chances are, anybody they might happen to be dating, probably isn’t very confident. Another rule is that any mildly attractive woman is likely attached to someone, but most of the time, until she’s around 35 years old, she is always looking for someone better. Always, even on their wedding day. This is why many women are drawn to successful individuals. It’s the way that the human race is wired to sustain itself perpetually forward. The privilege to sexual interaction can be psychologically constructed toward perpetuation, but that won’t stop a wandering eye from always zeroing in on someone who has the potential for great success. So I always tell young people, ‘If you want girls, make yourself useful, and they’ll find you.’ You won’t have to go looking for them. If you are a successful young person, you won’t be short on opportunities. However, you must be the genuine article. If you dress for success and try to smooze over unsuspecting women at the club with too much cologne and a cheesy outfit, they’ll discover real quick that you aren’t what you sold yourself to be, and they’ll check out fast and move on to someone else.
Of course, I’m not talking about girls when I’m talking about girls. But essential ingredients regarding the human race. Women are often the standard bearers for all existence. If you want to be associated with a good one, you have to be a person they think of as good. And most women are disappointed with the men in their lives, because our society teaches boys to be not very good men. Boys learn all the cosmetic stuff, but when it comes time to change the oil, they are lost. I have a friend in his fifties who is recently divorced. He’s a demolition derby driver, professionally, so he knows how to tear down a car and rebuild it from the ground up. He does it for fun almost every day of the week and throughout the weekend. Once word got around that he was no longer married, he had about 40 different girls half his age wanting to date him; it was really out of control. Now he’s not that wealthy by any means. However, he knows how to work on cars, and most of them have cars that need to be repaired, so he possesses skills that the other men in the millennial age group don’t have. And the girls are very aggressive about solving that problem by wanting to date my friend. As I joke with him, I say that being able to change oil is like being a millionaire in this overly progressive society, where feminism has been a joke and a massive failure. He is the evidence of that. You can’t hoodwink skills over fake charm; women figure it out really fast.
However, that same approach essentially carries over into all aspects of life. You can’t fake it, whether you are dealing with women or men; people are people, and they judge each other based on these essential truths. And once you understand this, it’s good to separate yourself from the herd by not chasing around traits that you think will make you likable, but are essentially a waste of time. I often discuss the Metaphysics of Quality, particularly regarding the back-of-the-train types, which are most people. Where you always want to be is in the front of the train, where it takes courage to be. Of course, women will be more attracted to you there, as opposed to the back, where all the others are hiding. But it’s not just women; all people respond similarly, even if they themselves don’t have that kind of personal courage. They are attracted to those who do. So, it’s best in life not to associate yourself with others who are considered losers, but are hiding that trait under some premise of collectivism to disguise their cowardly behavior, which reveals them to be back-of-the-train types, rather than leaders from the front. As Tony Montana said in Scarface, to get the women in America, you have to make the money. But even more than that, you have to be willing to emerge from the crowd and show a confidence that can achieve success, whether it’s making millions of dollars or just being able to change the oil in a car. Apparently, millennial women are very stressed about being able to change oil. The bar for success has significantly lowered over the years, as it used to be that all young men could change their own oil. But being able to do something better than everyone else is the key to getting opportunities in life. And those who separate themselves from the masses have much better lives, in just about every case.
Rich Hoffman

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