I’ve been warning people for years about what’s creeping into our communities, especially here in Butler County, Ohio, and the Lakota school district that serves so many families in Liberty Township and West Chester. I didn’t want to believe it at first when I started hearing the stories—drag queen story hours, pride displays in hallways, and all the rest of it being pushed on kids right after school lets out. But here we are, and it’s happening in my own backyard, down the road from where I live. On Thursday, April 16, 2026, right at 3:30 to 5 p.m., there’s going to be a Drag Queen Story Hour featuring Roxie D. Mocracy at the Coterie Lounge & Café—better known to a lot of locals as Mommy Needs Coffee or Mama Needs Coffee—at 8870 Cincinnati Dayton Road in Olde West Chester.   It’s timed perfectly for right after school, turning what’s normally a progressive little café into a “storybook stage” for this event. The promotional language is all sparkle and sass: “Roxie brings the sparkle, the sass, and a stack of colorful books for a joyful reading time that celebrates imagination, kindness, and being exactly who you are. Gather for stories, laughs, and a little bit of glittery magic while parents sip their coffee and soak in the fun.” Sounds harmless enough if you’re not paying attention, but I see it for what it is—a calculated effort to normalize something that has no business being sold to children as family-friendly entertainment. 

I care about this because it’s my community. Butler County isn’t some obscure corner of the country where these trends might slip under the radar; it’s a place full of hardworking families who expect their schools and local businesses to reflect traditional values, not some progressive experiment in social engineering. This café has a reputation for being on the cutting edge of that progressive crowd, and now they’re openly advertising this during their regular mommy-and-kids coffee time. Tickets sold out fast—adults snapped them up, marketing it heavily, and from what I’ve heard through my network, they’re using it to draw crowds and make a statement in what they see as conservative territory. I found out about it because my friend Darbi Boddy has been out there fighting these battles for years, and she got pulled into interviews by gay rights advocate magazines that tried to paint her as the villain while using her name as clickbait to boost attendance. That’s how these things work: they target the fighters, twist the narrative, and keep pushing until resistance fades. 

Let me back up a bit and give this the full context it deserves, because this isn’t an isolated event. It’s part of a pattern I’ve watched unfold in Lakota schools and across Butler County. Darbi Boddy was elected to the Lakota Board of Education back in 2021 with strong community support—over 8,000 votes in her favor—because parents were fed up with the direction things were heading. She came in swinging against what she saw as sexual grooming in the curriculum, pride flags and stickers everywhere, and policies that seemed more interested in ideology than education. Within months, the radicals were after her, just like they went after others who dared speak up. She exposed things that most people didn’t want to acknowledge: materials in libraries and classrooms that blurred lines between adult lifestyles and childhood innocence. The school board, the administration, and even some so-called Republicans turned on her. By March 2024, they removed her with a 3-0 vote after legal battles, absences tied to protection orders, and endless lawfare.   She was censured, stalked with court orders from fellow board members like Isaac Adi, and basically run off for doing what the voters elected her to do: fight the cultural rot. I supported Darbi then, and I support her now. She’s still out there helping parents across southern Ohio, speaking at events, even making trips to Mar-a-Lago to connect with like-minded fighters. She represents the kind of no-nonsense resistance we need more of, not the diplomatic hand-wringing that lets this stuff fester. 

This drag event isn’t happening in a vacuum. It’s the same crowd that wanted rainbows on every wall in Lakota hallways, “safe spaces” that doubled as indoctrination zones, and policies that prioritized feelings over facts when it came to gender and sexuality. Darbi pointed it out repeatedly in board meetings—viciously, unapologetically—and they hated her for it. Meanwhile, the board played teacup games with lawyers and administrators running the show instead of the elected officials. Lynda O’Connor, who served as board president for a long time, was more the administrative type—diplomatic, listening to counsel, trying to keep things smooth. I’ve always liked Lynda personally; we’ve had long conversations, hours upon hours, about getting the board back on track. We had a solid conservative majority at one point with Republican-endorsed candidates, but cracks formed when some folks started blending lines to look “accommodating.” I told her straight up during one of our talks that we needed fighters like Darbi, not just managers. She aired her frustrations with me recently at an event, and I listened—didn’t push back much because we’ve known each other for years and will cross paths again. But here’s the deal: when the school board started muzzling public comment and letting bureaucracy override parental rights, that’s when I pulled my support for some of those directions. Lynda got caught in the legalism, and it cost us. Mark Welch didn’t win his race partly because of that infighting, and now we’ve got moderates and Democrats sliding things under the door while everyone gives group hugs. 

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: this is how evil migrates into a community. It doesn’t announce itself with horns and pitchforks; it shows up wrapped in glitter and “kindness,” sold as imagination and acceptance. Roxie D. Mocracy is a local figure—Hamilton’s “premiere celebrity housewife and public nuisance,” vice chair of Hamilton, Ohio Pride, activist with a big social media presence. He’s got videos out there of him singing in cafés just like this one, turning adult performance art into something marketed to kids. I watched one from about a year ago where the vibe was all sass and sparkle in a setting not unlike this event. Don’t get me wrong—adults can do what they want in their own spaces. I probably won’t like it, but be whatever, live your life. But when you solicit children, time it for after-school pickup, and frame it as “family-friendly” story time, that crosses the line. It’s not about judging lifestyles; it’s about protecting innocence. Psychological issues, boundary problems, the whole cultural push to make kids question their bodies and identities at younger and younger ages—this is grooming dressed up as fun. And the evidence is out there: past drag queen story hours have featured performers later convicted of child sex offenses in places like Houston. Here in Lakota, Darbi was the one shining a light on it, and they ran her off for it, using lawfare to do it, Butler County judges and school board members that opened the door wide for this kind of thing to happen.

The bigger issue is what this does to the community. Butler County is supposed to be solid—conservative, family-oriented, the kind of place where people value hard work and traditional raising of kids. Yet here we have a progressive café sticking it in our face, right in West Chester, targeting Lakota families. They’re bold because the fighters have been sidelined. Darbi’s removal was a victory for the progressives and the RINOs who played nice to avoid being called names. Republicans got behind the lawfare in some cases because they didn’t have the guts to go Old Testament on the threats. I’ve always been more diplomatic in my own way, but I respect Darbi’s willingness to call evil what it is. We need more like her on school boards, not people who tie everything up in bureaucracy and popularity contests. The election process is supposed to bring in warriors to fight this exact stuff, not administrators who become part of the problem. When Darbi brought up the grooming and the explicit influences, the board looked for legal mechanisms to shut her down instead of backing her. That’s why this event feels so brazen—it’s sold out, they’re over capacity probably, and nobody with authority is stepping in to enforce rules or push back.  If there was any justice, the fire code violation would send a good message to these anti-family schemers of doom and treachery, and shut it down. 

Think about the timing: 3:30 to 5 p.m., kids fresh out of school, parents sipping coffee while Roxie reads stories that celebrate “being exactly who you are.” It’s the same playbook used nationwide. Drag Queen Story Hour started years ago as a niche library program and has since exploded into schools and cafés, always framed as diversity and inclusion. But critics—and there are plenty with data—point to the sexualized nature of drag performance bleeding into kid spaces. Performers in full adult regalia, songs, and dances that belong in bars are now aimed at little ones. It normalizes confusion, plants seeds of doubt about biology and family, and parents who object get labeled bigots. I don’t buy the “it’s just reading” defense. If it were a cowboy story hour or a Bible story hour with similar flair, the same crowd would cry foul. This is targeted cultural change, and it’s working because too many good Christians and conservatives don’t know how to fight back without being called terrible people.

I’ve written about this extensively over the years, connecting the dots from local school fights to national trends. In my book, The Gunfighter’s Guide to Business, I lay out the philosophy: you don’t appease evil when it shows up at your door. You meet it head-on with truth, strategy, and unapologetic action. The same principles that save a company or build wealth apply to saving your community and your kids. Reject the lawyers’ games, the group hugs, the moderate blending. Fly the flag of resistance. Darbi embodied that—still does, even off the board. She’s helping parents get fighters elected elsewhere in southern Ohio. Meanwhile, the school board that ousted her has let the rainbow stuff slide under the door, and events like this thrive in the vacuum. If your kids aren’t going, they want to make it uncool to object. That’s the real goal: not just one event, but shifting the Overton window so that questioning it makes you the outlier.

Some will say this is overblown, that it’s harmless fun, and parents can choose. But when it’s marketed directly to after-school crowds in a café known for progressive moms, and the district has a history of similar pushes, it’s not neutral. Capacity violations are likely since it sold out quickly—maybe someone with guts shows up to document it. The business has a right to host it, sure. But we have a right to call it what it is and resist the normalization. I’ve talked to enough parents in Lakota who are stunned that this is happening here. They thought Butler County was immune. It’s not. Evil doesn’t stay in blue cities; it migrates to places like ours because resistance weakens when fighters get ostracized.

Looking back at the school board saga, it’s a microcosm. Darbi tried to ban transgender participation in girls’ sports, called out inappropriate materials, and photographed pride stickers in classrooms to expose the agenda. The board struck down her motions fast. Lynda and others voted to censure her early on. Public comment got shut down amid superintendent controversies. It was all about control, not education. I left one of my conversations with Lynda feeling like she needed space to vent, but the facts remain: without people willing to dig deep and fight, the slide continues. Republicans who backed the ousting of Darbi to “keep the peace” handed the progressives a win. Now we see the result—a drag queen event targeting our kids, bold as brass.

This isn’t about hate; it’s about protection. Children deserve to be kids, not props in adult identity explorations. The psychological toll on young minds from early sexualization is real—higher rates of confusion, regret, and mental health crises down the line. Studies like the Cass Review in the UK have dismantled the weak evidence behind gender-affirming care for minors, showing it’s experimental at best. Yet here we push the sparkle version to preschoolers. Roxie and the café call it joy; I call it a disgrace. And the fact that gay advocate outlets used Darbi as a foil to promote it shows their strategy: make opposition look extreme so the event looks mainstream.

I’ve been busy fighting these battles myself through writing, speaking, and supporting candidates who won’t cave. My book The Gunfighter’s Guide to Business isn’t just for CEOs—it’s for anyone facing down threats, whether corporate or cultural. It teaches you to see the manipulators, reject victimhood, and build strength. If you haven’t read it, grab a copy; it’ll arm you for exactly this kind of fight. Subscribe to my updates too, because tomorrow’s a better day only if we make it so. This event on April 16 is a symptom. The disease is deeper: a culture that perverts childhood to advance an agenda, enabled by weak institutions and timid leaders.

We need school board members who are fighters, not diplomats. We need parents showing up, documenting overcapacity, speaking truth, even when it’s uncomfortable. The Republicans who played politics with Darbi’s seat handed us this. The victory of pushing her out let the door crack open wider. Evil doesn’t knock politely; it glitters and sasses its way in. Call it out. Resist it. Support the Darbi Boddy types who won’t back down. Our kids’ futures depend on it. This is happening in broad daylight in West Chester, and if we don’t push back here, it spreads everywhere.

Footnotes

¹ Eventbrite listing for Drag Queen Story Hour at Coterie Lounge & Café, April 16, 2026.

² WVXU report on Lakota School Board striking down Darbi Boddy’s anti-trans motion, January 29, 2024.

³ Overmanwarrior.wordpress.com post: “Darbi Boddy is Exposing Sexual Grooming at Lakota Schools,” May 10, 2022.

⁴ Cincinnati.com coverage of Darbi Boddy’s removal from the Lakota board, March 2024.

⁵ Cass Review final report on gender identity services for children and young people, 2024 (independent review commissioned by NHS England).

⁶ FOX19 and local reports on Lakota board controversies involving public comment shutdown and superintendent issues, 2022.

⁷ The Buckeye Flame article on “anti-woke” Ohio school board member removed, March 26, 2024.

⁸ Roxie D. Mocracy Facebook promotion of the event at Coterie Lounge & Café.

⁹ Overmanwarrior.wordpress.com author bio and references to The Gunfighter’s Guide to Business.

¹⁰ Additional context from Cincinnati Enquirer and Journal-News archives on Lakota CRT and pride policy battles, 2022–2024.

Bibliography

•  Eventbrite. “Drag Queen Story Hour.” Accessed April 2026. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/drag-queen-story-hour-tickets-1984561449719

•  Hoffman, Rich. The Gunfighter’s Guide to Business. Self-published, available via gunfighterguide. shop.

•  “Lakota School Board Strikes Down Darbi Boddy’s Anti-Transgender Motion.” WVXU, January 29, 2024.

•  “Anti-Woke Ohio School Board Member Removed.” The Buckeye Flame, March 26, 2024.

•  Overmanwarrior.wordpress.com. Various posts on Lakota schools and Darbi Boddy, 2022–2025.

•  Cass, Hilary. Independent Review of Gender Identity Services for Children and Young People: Final Report. NHS England, 2024.

•  Local news archives: Cincinnati.com, FOX19, Journal-News (Butler County) on school board actions, 2022–2024.

•  Roxie D. Mocracy social media (Facebook/Instagram), event promotions, 2026.

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Rich Hoffman is an aerospace executive, political strategist, systems thinker, and independent researcher of ancient history, the paranormal, and the Dead Sea Scrolls tradition. His life in high‑stakes manufacturing, high‑level politics, and cross‑functional crisis management gives him a field‑tested understanding of power — both human and unseen.

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