I knew this would happen, and I’ve talked about it for a long time. More and more women, especially young, attractive women, are signing up for relationships with traditional men to be stay-at-home girlfriends or wives. They are willing to do all the cooking, cleaning, and home maintenance in exchange for staying home while the man goes out and makes all the money. In some cases, they are even signing legal documents protecting the man from such a relationship where the deal is off if the woman gains too much weight by going over 130 LBs. In that way, sex, which men need voracious amounts of, can be obtained by the stay-at-home relationship whenever and wherever so that the man can get back to work and be productive. It’s obviously a flip on the entire concept of feminism, which has turned out to be a big lie for women. The idea was that they could have everything if only they sold themselves to a career and that their career ultimately served government and international statistics. Women are built for certain things in life, and men have their roles because of many of the social failures that young people are witnessing, with transsexual lifestyle acceptances being the latest disaster; women are turning toward traditions before the progressive movement ruined everything for everybody. This isn’t so much about women losing rights, or the ability to vote, or getting equal pay for equal work. Instead, it’s a rejection of the premise of progressive intrusion into the natural biological desires of the two sexes and how they can benefit each other in relationships. And with the rejection of progressive social relationships, people are looking for a much happier life where their needs are more fulfilled.
I’ve been married for more than 35 years, and my wife has been a traditional housewife most of that time. It has caused us a lot of trouble from the peer groups that expected us to pursue some ridiculous life designed by progressives. Dumb things like, do you guys share dishwashing opportunities? And how do you divide income if I make all the money? I have always been, and will always be, a traditional man. I make the money and give it to my wife to distribute to meet the needs of the family and our domestic life. We have a very defined division of labor, but the first criterion, of course, is stability because you can’t build a life together without a firm foundation, and that comes from income and everyday things like having access to a car and ensuring that there are resources for a woman to build a family with. Women are not very happy when they don’t have resources to work with. So, for a traditional man, that means no matter what, that basic foundation has to be maintained. In our life, especially early on, I had to do extraordinary things to provide that security, including riding bicycles to work 12 to 20 miles one way and working multiple jobs to ensure enough money was coming into the family because we could only afford one car. And I always made sure she had the car so the kids would have that basic security. So sexual expectations and weight tolerances are certainly part of the story, but first, security had to be provided and there is nothing that causes instability in a relationship than some man crying about how unfair the world is and how he wants to share all the responsibilities of domestic life with a woman, as he was taught in his socialist government schools. This entire scam has dramatically turned women off.
My mom was one of the few stay-at-home moms in the 70s and 80s and she certainly paid for it. Socially, she was ridiculed by the other moms to no end. But all the kids I knew wanted a mom like her. When I met a beautiful girl who wanted to be a stay-at-home mom at an early age, even though it wasn’t convenient then, I took the plunge into marriage because I knew how rare it was to find a woman who wanted even to be a traditional housewife. Even as a young person, I had defined opinions about the adverse effects of feminism. I could deal with women who wanted to work in the world, but for building a family, I had strong ideas about it. So when I found someone who shared those opinions, we got married and started making a life traditionally because all the progressive family tampering was not for us. As a result, our children grew up expecting much the same kind of thing because that’s what works in family building, even if the men aren’t of the same quality as they used to be, which is why a lot of women are desperate to get out of the rat race now. Melania Trump has been an excellent example of this type of relationship. Sure, she married a wealthy playboy, which came with all kinds of problems. But she has managed to use her beauty and intelligence in very productive ways to raise a son with the kind of attention she wanted to apply, and the results have been good for her. Of course, all the women not so fortunate to have beauty like Melania, and who will never be able to attract a wealthy billionaire to have such a lavish lifestyle, hate her.
I learned all I wanted about these matters in the fifth grade, and one of the cutest girls in school wanted to go steady with me. Under a lot of pressure from other girls, I said yes. She asked me, and I wasn’t interested in girls yet. But then I had to go to her house because that’s what girlfriends and boyfriends did. I didn’t know what to expect; I thought we’d play a game or draw pictures. I had no idea. No, she was interested in sex, and she was very experienced. She lived in one of those new neighborhoods back in the 70s where most of the moms worked, and all the homes were dual income. That might sound strange since that is the status of most homes these days. But back then, it was just becoming a thing. She had already been naked for every boy in the neighborhood, and that was her idea of what a boyfriend and girlfriend did together because there were no parents around to teach anybody anything. And that was the start of today’s disaster, which I rejected immediately. I called my parents to come and get me, which was the end of that forever. As soon as I could find a young woman who thought the same way or similar to me on these family matters, I wanted out of the rat race, and we have been married for 35 years. Most of our problems over the years were due to outside pressures built by progressive expectations. Not in our relationship with each other or the family roles we have taken on in a division-of-labor way. And it has been challenging. Not because the relationship itself was complicated but because the social expectations that came from ridiculous rules of feminism were so outrageously broken. And now, many people, especially women, are figuring out that they want the traditional roles because the world is broken and offering them nothing but misery. Which, based on my experience, doesn’t surprise me in the least.
Without question, the root cause of feminism and communist, progressive thought was that only the most attractive women could get access to the best men. Unattractive women, no matter how much make-up they put on would not be able to get anything but the slugs in life to pair with. So the anti-family progressives reading straight out of Karl Marx came up with this idea of fairness, in destroying all men so no women could have the good ones, because there were none to get. And then the plan was to send women of all kinds into the world to be enslaved for corporate/government alliances to determine value. Then the plan was to let the government schools raise the children of any marriages that were attempted. And in all that social engineering, that went against the happiness of human beings, these people have ruined life for everyone. In what they started as an attempt at fairness, fairness for people lacking attractiveness or good family structures and domestic skills would destroy opportunities for everyone. But now, when it’s so apparent that these failures are occurring in every part of our lives, attractive young women are dropping progressive politics and converting to tradition because it is to their advantage to do so. And in so doing, they are finding happiness, which will cause many to follow after them, wisely.
Rich Hoffman
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